Sunday, September 30, 2012

Cynwood Trail

Last Sunday morning we explored the Cynwood Heritage Trail. It's a beautiful trail where they paved over old railroad tracks. It's a perfect trail for bikers, runners, walkers and talking your dog out.
The kids brought their bikes and Dave and I walked. At one point the trail looks out over 76 and Manayunk. There are also huge boulders to climb on.

Reading time

This is our neighbor's girfriend's son, Elijah. He's in 1st grade. 
The kids got a couple of new books and Elijah was reading to the kids.

Saturday, September 29, 2012

Life is Good

For the first time since we lived in China I'm doing really well. Now, let me clarify...
Ever since my senior year in college my relationship with God has been fairly strong. There hasn't been much to really rock that in a major way. Our first year of marriage was tough, but we got married young. When I realized that my job was going to be telling people why I believe what I believe, I then examined my faith and stood firmer in my faith.
For the school year that we lived in China I was challenged more than EVER if I really want to follow God with my whole heart and with my life. Although I fought God that year, I also spent most weekday afternoons reading my Bible and journaling. I was frustrated with God, but really I was frustrated with myself because I was seeing the sin in my heart that was deep within and I hated it! Anyway, I some how came out of that year stronger in my relationship with God.
Then Alex was born.
My world was really rocked again. I have lived a really coushy life. A life with no hardship, a life of luxury and a life where I mostly got what I wanted. I'm very thankful that my family never struggled with bills or food or clothes. God blessed us. However, it has set my expectations too high.
So when Alex was born and he had colic, was covered with eczema, had reflux, and was an extremely demanding baby I was angry with God. How could he give me a child this difficult! Why did God hate me so much?
Alex stopped napping in January (he'll be 3 Oct 12th). Lilia is so extraverted that she hated being alone. Therefore I never got alone time. I was going and going and going every day, never tapping into the source that gives me strength - Jesus.
For a LONG time I resented the needy baby Alex was and I was angry with God for not making Alex easier. Leave it to having children to see how messed up, selfish, and sinful we truly are!
Thanks to my parents and my in-laws and their love for us and the grandkids, we made it through the first couple of years.
Now everything has changed...for the better!
Lilia is in full day Kindergarten and she loves it! Alex and I get QUALITY time each day. I remember when he was born. As I held him in the hospital bed I looked at him so lovingly, so fondly. I called him my little buddy. Finally that day has come! We're buddies! We hang out at parks, museums, the zoo and at home and just have fun together. It's wonderful!
Yes, he still requires supernatural amounts of patience, but because Lilia is in school I have the capability to give that to him - with God's help of course. The best part is that almost every week day I get to spend time with God, reading my Bible and praying some. That's been the real turning point for me.
So now life is good. I'm thankful for hardship because it draws us closer to Jesus. Now I feel like I'm living out of thankfulness and joy! Praise be to God!

Sunday, September 23, 2012

Free Sale

Yesterday morning we had a free yard sale. I collected things from the basement and from friends and we had a free sale out front. We had a lot of people come by. Some of whom were really in need. This woman came with her daughter. She said she saw one of my signs. She left with so many things and she said over and over how thankful she was and how much this was a blessing.
The kids sold lemonade for 25 cents. I think they made somewhere around $10.


Monday, September 17, 2012

10 years

 On Friday, September 14th, Dave and I celebrated 10 years of marriage.
In college when we first started dating, everyone said we were perfect for each other. Honestly I didn't see it. I knew I really liked Dave and he was an awesome guy, but I wouldn't have said "perfect."
Ten years later, although I've seen it before this, I can really see that he is perfect for me. I have a husband who never tires of joyfully serving me. I have a husband who is fun, funny, handsome, brilliant, pushes me closer to God, and keeps (help to at least) me balanced.
I know I have a man who wouldn't leave my side only because he is committed to Christ.
He's perfect for me.
I'm glad I listened to those friends back in college. If I hadn't said yes, I'd be missing out on something so big and so worth wild!
Longwood Gardens, The Meadow

Inch worm

Inchy the inch worm was spotted doin' his thang.

As part of our anniversary weekend, we spent Saturday afternoon at Longwood Gardens. It had been 12 years since we were there last.
The weather was perfect; reminiscent of our wedding day.
The gardens were so beautiful.
We loved strolling around as a couple, remembering the love we share.


Up close at Longwood

 I truly love nature. (Although it's funny how terrified I am of things that crawl and fly.)
Here are so close ups of nature's beauty.
Giant lily pad